As coaches, we’ve heard the innermost thoughts and fears of a lot of people. The facts and feelings people share with us are things that they probably wouldn’t share with 95% of the people they interact with on a daily basis.

Which means that we know something about them that you don’t …

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THIS WEEK, WE WANT YOU TO KNOW:

other people

APPLY IT TO YOUR OWN LIFE:

Here’s what we’ve witnessed:

Everyone is worried about what everyone else thinks. But everyone tends to think they’re the only one worrying in that way.

If you do the math, this doesn’t add up at all. If other people are overly concerned about what you think, and you’re caught up about what they think … then what are we all worrying about, exactly?

The point being … that confident person whose opinion you’re really worried about is probably just as human as you. They don’t have something you don’t. And if you heard their inner dialogue, you’d be shocked by how much it resembled yours.

So let’s just call it a wash, shall we? Their fears and your fears cancel each other out. Instead of wasting gobs of mental energy on people who probably aren’t giving you much thought at all … why don’t you spend that energy on doing your own thing?

twitter-birdWhile you’re busy worrying about what they think, they’re worrying the same way about YOU. #ClarityGems

How is this #ClarityGem sitting with you today? Tag us @ClarityonFire on Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram, or leave us a comment on the blog to let us know! 

WHAT #CLARITYGEMS ARE ALL ABOUT:

Sometimes it’s just better to avoid long blog posts and cut straight to the point!

Think of #ClarityGems as your weekly shake of the good ‘ole Magic 8 Ball … you never know what might bubble up and how it might be exactly what you need to hear today.

And instead of just a beautiful, inspirational, and shareable image (which is a nice start), we’re giving you some quick thoughts about how to interpret it … because inspiration without action is pretty, but kind of anti-climatic.

Tweet it, share it on Instagram, or forward it along to someone who needs to hear it today … and tag us (@ClarityonFire) to let us know how this Gem is inspiring you!

Much Love,

Kristen + Rachel

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I DON’T WANT TO SETTLE FOR SOMETHING I DON’T LOVE … BUT I CAN’T FIGURE OUT WHAT I DO LOVE!

We know that a big concern many of you have sounds something like … “I have absolutely ZERO desire to settle for something I don’t love, but I have no idea what I’d rather be doing, so I’m kind of stuck here until I can figure it out.”

This is a really normal thing! And thankfully, we’ve got something coming up in a couple weeks that will help you immensely:

Join us on Tuesday, September 15th at 12pm Eastern for a FREE live hangout — How to find a job you love … that loves you back

We’ve coached countless people into career opportunities that feel un-real. Doesn’t matter what you want … freedom, flexibility, autonomy to do your own thing, international travel, remote work, an inspiring team, variety out the wazoo, or a substantial salary … we’ve seen it happen.

Whether or not you can join us live, register anyway and you’ll get the recording sent to you post-hangout.

9-15-15 live hangout registration imageSee you there!

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