Dear Krachel: Should I trust my boyfriend’s words or his actions?


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Welcome to another episode of Dear Krachel, a monthly advice segment where we answer audience questions about life, career, relationships, existential angst, and anything that helps you become a more whole, fulfilled version of yourself.

On this episode, we’re answering questions from:

  • Catherine, who’s having some difficulty with a “jackhammer”-type boss. How do you work with someone who inadvertently makes you feel judged or less-than?
  • Isabelle, who doesn’t want a spouse, kids, or a corporate career … which everyone insists she’ll regret not having. Are they right? Is there something she just isn’t seeing?
  • Jasmine, whose boyfriend of 4 years says he wants to get married, but clams up whenever she tries to talk about the timeline. What should she do if she wants to trust his words, but his actions just aren’t lining up?

After you’ve listened, leave us a comment to let us know if our advice for these three ladies resonated with you, too.

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On the subject of jackhammers and hummingbirds: Rachel’s blog about jackhammers and hummingbirds and our side chat about how to figure out what to do with your life.

Bonus Book Club! Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert

Rachel’s blog about not taking responsibility for everything that sucks

Side Chat: How to work like a woman (in a world that doesn’t want you to)

On the subject of masculine and feminine energy: Alison Armstrong and David Deida

Joanna Platt’s pre-marital coaching course, Engaged


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