Dear Krachel: Tell me how to stop thinking, “This will never happen!”

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Welcome to another episode of Dear Krachel, our monthly advice segment where we answer listener questions about life, career, relationships, existential angst, and anything that helps you become a more whole, fulfilled version of yourself.

This month we answered questions from:

  • Samantha, who listened to our last Side Chat about wants vs. needs and started wondering about how that idea applies to money — when is it a need, and when does it become a want? And are you allowed to think that a large amount of money is actually a need?
  • So Many Books, So Little Time, who’s very overwhelmed by all the things she wants to do, but doesn’t have time for now that she’s working a 9-5 again. How do you even begin to choose which books, podcasts, shows, courses, and YouTube videos to check out, and which to ignore?
  • Amelia, who listened to some of our past Bonus Book Club episodes (linked below!) and was inspired to experiment with the Law of Attraction. She’s mind-blown with the results! But now that she’s realized how powerful her thoughts and intentions are, she wants to stop thinking things like, “I’ll never meet someone!” How do you stop fixating on things that you don’t want to happen?

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Bonus Book Club! The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho (August 2018)

Bonus Book Club! Outrageous Openness by Tosha Silver (November 2018)

Bonus Book Club! It’s Not Your Money by Tosha Silver (March 2019)

Bonus Book Club! E-Squared by Pam Grout (January 2020)


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